Tuesday, August 23, 2011

这样下去...不行

从厕所方便出来。第一眼看见一个讨厌的家伙来了!心跳好快!嗒嗒嗒嗒嗒...!!以最快的速度,躲到产生部。眼睛就像在人海中失去陪伴,不停地寻找我的救星。


看到了!" Chitta!! "  该死的!没听见我叫他的声音!
看着离我最近的工人"Tolong panggil Chitta"
结果,他还是不答理我,继续他的工作。
视线慢慢的转向右边,偷偷瞄了经理。「咦?他应该帮我点货了吧?」心里还是不确定的猜想着。也不能一直躲在这吧?!
还是硬着头皮走回办公室!


桌子上的单,经理真的帮我签了!哈!松口气!
"靓女!有三把气枪要拿去修理"讨厌鬼好像不怎么想走的意思。
赶紧拿起单开!快!快!快!写好就让他赶快离开。


由于上次发生的事,我告诉过经理他的为人。所以,经理站在我身旁,象守护神一样,让讨厌鬼没机会和我对话。但也不能干站着,太明显动机了。经理便随手拿起我脚边的文件,假装问我公事。


怎么料到,我转个头回答经理的问题。他给我站在人家后面,对我偷笑。害我差点忍不住也笑出来!忍着!忍!要是穿帮就完蛋!
终于讨厌鬼要离开了,临走前还对我说"靓女,走先喔!"
随便应了句,望也不想望他。(对于不喜欢的人,压根就不想让对方看见)道别后还没离开的意思。心里还是感到怕怕,干脆就到隔壁经理办公室躲,直到那人离开为止!


待讨厌鬼走后,经理抱着好笑心态问"为什么那么害怕他?"
其实,我不知道该怎么答他,只好轻笑随便答说"他的眼神另我害怕咯!"答案严重的敷衍人。呵呵...
心里有好几千万句"谢谢你"想对经理说,谢谢你肯为了我这种小脚色,站着我这里当几分钟的护花使者。好心有好报,你会得到福报的。I PRAY FOR YOU ...嘻嘻..

Sunday, August 21, 2011

how to forget someone

This is me found from Hong Kong browser.Acutally i would like to shared to my all reader ...and 1st time i wirte by english blog.enjoy it.

Romantic relationships can be really complicated and end up in a bad breakup. The worst thing about these "sad endings" is that at least one heart ends up broken. Getting over a break up can be tough. Sometimes, it's even hard for both sides--after all, breaking up is not easy to do. It hurts to throw away your story with someone--all the good memories and the dreams and plans you two had for the future. Mending a broken heart takes time and patience. But you must face the fact that your heart is broken. It doesn't matter if you wish things could be different or if you even regret something you did. It doesn't matter if you think you shouldn't have become that involved with that person or if you're angry and looking for revenge. The fact is: Your heart is broken! This relationship advice can help.
Even if the only thing you want to do is win your partner back - and by the way, if you're interested in doing this then I strongly recommend The Magic of Making Up - when a relationship is truly over, it's time to begin the healing process. 
So now what? Are you going to sit and cry for the rest of your life or do you intend to do something? Was that ending your fault or are you not the one to blame? Is there something you can do to fix it? Is there something you should stop and think about so you can act in a better way the next time 'round? Is mending a broken heart even possible? Of course it is! With this relationship advice, getting over a break up is possible. There are many things you can do to heal a broken heart! And the best thing is: It all depends on you! Here's how to forget someone in 8 steps.
Step 1
Cry out everything you have to cry about! When we get hurt, it's normal (and good) to cry. Don't ever think you're being weak for crying and don't feel embarrassed because of it! It's normal and it's good! When you cry, you let go of part of your anger and hurt so you can feel less heavy. You can lock yourself in a room, if you want to, and put on some sad music...but let yourself feel the pain and cry so you can let it go. The main thing here is: Get rid of the pain! Just let her go!
Step 2
Get busy! When you're trying to get someone out of your head, you need to put other things inside of it. In other words...get busy! It doesn't matter how, you just need to get distracted. Go to a movie, watch a play, travel. It doesn't matter what are you going to do--the important thing is to find something to do. Find a hobby, find something you enjoy doing, something to keep your mind busy. If your mind is busy, it doesn't have time or space to think about the person you're trying to forget
Step 3
Spend some time with your friends. Friends are always great to have in this kind of situation! Friends can make you feel good about yourself and get you distracted very easily. They will certainly make you laugh and make you see that you're way more important than you think! The only warning is: Ask them not to talk about the person you're trying to forget. If they start bringing the topic up in every conversation, you won't be able to forget, and instead of making you laugh, they're going to make you cry. So be honest and ask them not to talk about it!
Step 4
Avoid the person! Try not to go to places you know you can meet that person. When you're trying to forget someone and you two keep seeing each other, it gets hard to get over it. If you meet him/her somewhere, just be nice and kind, but find an excuse to go away as fast as you can! If you work or study with him/her and you can't avoid seeing him/her, just try not to look and not to talk too much. Just be gentle and keep busy all the time so you won't have excuses to look at him/her or to chat.
Step 5
Go out and see some different faces! Being at home gives you more time to think about it, which makes the process even more difficult. So even if you're not feeling excited or you're in a bad mood, just put on your best clothes, best shoes, best smile, call some friends and go somewhere nice where you can dance, drink, listen to some music. And the most important: See some different faces! When you go out, you notice that the person you're trying to forget is not the only one who's got a perfect smile and an amazing voice...thank god, there are other interesting people around the world, too!
Step 6
Avoid every kind of romantic thing! If you're trying to forget someone, you'd better not watch romantic movies or listen to romantic songs...it makes you feel bad and you will certainly remember the person you're trying to get rid of. It doesn't matter if it's a song you love or if it's playing on the radio...just change the station or do something else! Put on some happy songs, dancing songs, watch some comedies, terror movies, whatever...you just need to avoid the romantic things for now!
Step 7
Take good care of yourself. Women tend to run for some kind of self-destruction when they're hurt. If we break up our perfect relationship, then we have no reason to get our nails done anymore and the only thing that gives us comfort is chocolate and sugar. That way, the only thing we do is to become less attractive and lessen our self-confidence. So if you're hurt, just try to use your pain for yourself instead of against you. Go to the gym, work out a lot, get your nails and hair done...do whatever you can so you can feel more pretty and confident!
Step 8
Accept the process! You can be really strong and it's still going to hurt. The process takes time and you have to accept that! You can't hope to forget in 2 days someone you loved for 2 years...and you can't pretend to be strong if you feel like crying. Just face your pain and accept that it's not easy and it's going to take some time. When you're patient with yourself and your situation, things tend to get easier...

Well, of course, forgetting someone is not easy to do nor is it easily explained in just 8 steps. But there are some things that make the process a lot smoother. As I said, it takes time and it's hard but I'm sure you can do it! The only thing that is really, really important is: It all depends on you! Don' ever forget that! If you want to forget someone, then you will, there is no doubt! Even if it takes a long time, even if you have to be really strong...you will be! In that kind of situation we usually find out that we are a lot stronger than we give ourselves credit for! So believe that. Believe that, take a deep breath and move on! Your life's waiting for you, baby!

压力后的梦境

总是遇到压力后,都会出现他的踪影。朋友说,他就像是被我硬生生的压锁在脑里的某个储存柜。当遇到困难或是压力,我终究还是无意的回到那里,无形中地向他索取安慰。那便是我的梦...!那天我肯定般地,告诉其中一位朋友。向她说着:我确定已经把他给放下了。


直到,昨晚那场梦。原来脑海里,还有他残余的影子。只是梦里,我们却已成了陌生人。眼对眼的望住了对方三秒,然后便擦身而过。犹如一般好...好...好...陌生的路人甲,头也不回的继续各走各路。虽然不再怎么为他伤心流泪,只是有点失望为什么就不能在继续彼此间的友谊。一个微笑,轻轻的点个头也好吧?而我也了解他说的"分开以后就没必要再维持任何关系"

反正也不要紧了,我已经不再那么执着任何和他有关系的东西。也算是比上一回好,这次已经没对白,也知道这人渐渐离我越来越远了。自私一些,我只要我快乐就心满意足。希望不要再有任何有关他的消息,当然没有压力的原因下发生是最好不过~

我必须放松心情,放开一些不必要的细考,不要想太多。人生不如意十之有九,该来的还是要面对。走在任何照到自己的地方,不时对自己说'要坚强面对所有'...

Saturday, August 20, 2011

没有程序的制度

在这里工作已经4个月了。熟悉得差不多,渐渐恢复以前的状态。
每天都向同事们抱怨着,某某顾客的工作令我这4个月里,没停止过修改。我想同事们也听得感觉厌烦吧...终于在前几天顾客催我交单了。可是,昨天又退还给我,让我再次修改。原来丫...她要的是仅仅那几张单,是老板娘一下同我说这要改,那要修。结果把人家不要的东西多余得弄一份出来。而且这次给我的期限就更短啦!两天!


什么嗄?!两天!!可...可...可是,单就被老板娘搞得一团乱了嘛!没得反驳的机会,只得硬着头皮把口水吞下,答应了!继续的把每天必须完成的工作堆在一边。埋头苦干,没时间偷闲不停的赶赶赶。两天过去,再一次交到顾客手中。呼!松口气~


不出半小时,我又接到另一部门的同事电话。她告诉我说,我的单全部都错完,都倒转了公司名字!对我来说简直就是"晴天霹雳""天地不容"!!老板娘!!!你把我害惨啦!资料是你给我,最后我得结果是个错!我必须找人发泄,告诉全世界我好无辜啊~~虽说老板娘很平常的每回要我们把东西改来改去,可这个单不是一两天能完成的东西。


为什么这里都没有自己的程序呢?!能喜欢喜欢就改东改西的吗?老板娘就不能以身作则吗?我好想当面告诉你这些话,但是身份关系,当然还是不行啦。只是开始问自己,还能忍多久?而且还面对着一些攻心计的同事!


当然我也了解,受人钱财替人消灾的道理。虽然压力大,人就是应该面对生活每个难度挑战,这样才能提升自己。

P/S:也幸好今天老板娘临下班前打电话,告诉我说那些都没错。(心想:你是老板娘,说什么都是对!听你的便是。)只要我还做得到,给我什么都做。要是做不来,嘿嘿!楼上的麻润肠,你可要小心咯!嘻嘻!你也不会清闲太久喔!